Creative Mourning

PAUSE x Feminist Center for Creative Work (FCCW)

 Creative Mourning is a six-month, in-person peer support series designed for people of color in Los Angeles. Facilitated in partnership with PAUSE and the Feminist Center for Creative Work, these peer-led gatherings offer a creative, non-clinical space to explore grief, memory, and transformation through art — outside of institutional and therapeutic frameworks.

Each monthly session invites participants to explore grief through a different artistic modality - painting, collage, music, poetry, and more - guided by guest creatives and grounded by the presence of experienced grief-holders from our communities, including a POC mental health practitioner and a death doula. Together, we’ll make, move, and reflect in community - holding space for grief to surface creatively, and supporting one another through presence, ritual, and art.

Whether you're grieving a person, a place, a version of yourself, or a collective loss, this circle welcomes you. Participants will also receive a curated grief resource booklet and be part of a creative pilot exploring how access to art can expand the ways we understand, express, and relate to grief.

Though we will have a mental health professional present, this space is not a substitute for therapy or crisis support. Instead, it is an offering for creative witnessing, collective exploration, and community-making around grief.

Free and open to 10 participants who identify as People of Color.

Gathering descriptions

  • 5:30-5:50 - Arrival & Grounding
    Breathwork + body map: “Where is grief in your body today?”

    5:50-6:10 - Guest Instructor Intro
    Guest creative shares how creative practice supports grief.
    Prompt option: “Make something small that helps you carry or name your grief.”

    6:10-6:40 - Creative Time
    Participants make small grief talismans using natural/found materials.

    6:40-7:10 - Circle Share
    Reflections on what their object holds or represents.

    7:10-7:30 - Closing Ritual
    Burn slips with written burdens (outdoors).
    Group breath release.

  • 5:30-5:50 - Grounding
    Color visualization meditation: “What color is your grief today?”

    5:50-6:10 - Guest Instructor Intro
    Artist shares visual response to grief.
    Prompt option: “What does your grief look like when no one is watching?”

    6:10-6:40 - Creative Time
    Abstract painting/drawing with watercolors, ink, pastels.

    6:40-7:10 - Circle Share
    Share pieces or process; no interpretation required.

    7:10-7:30 - Closing Ritual
    Silent group witness of a shared art wall with candlelight.

  • 5:30-5:50 - Grounding
    Paper-tearing meditation to match the breath.

    5:50-6:10 - Guest Instructor Intro
    Collage artist shares grief altar or memorial page.
    Prompt option: “Create a visual altar for someone, a time, or a version of yourself you’ve lost.”

    6:10-6:40 - Creative Time
    Collage with magazines, text, fabric, and images.

    6:40-7:10 - Circle Share
    Reflections on the meaning or emotional process.

    7:10-7:30 - Closing Ritual
    Group affirmation.
    Altar display.

  • 5:30-5:50 - Grounding
    Read-aloud of a poem on grief; short reflection.

    5:50-6:10 - Guest Instructor Intro
    Poet shares work and writing prompts.
    Prompt options: “If I could speak to my grief…” / “My grief lives in…” / blackout poetry.

    6:10-6:40 - Creative Time
    Writing in silence or to music. Journals provided.

    6:40-7:10 - Circle Share
    Optional readings or reflections on writing.

    7:10-7:30 - Closing Ritual
    Group poem created from single lines by each participant.

  • 5:30-5:50 - Grounding
    Humming meditation or collective sound bath.

    5:50-6:10 - Guest Instructor Intro
    Musician or DJ introduces playlist, shares story of grief and sound.
    Prompt option: “Create or share a sound that reflects your grief.”

    6:10-6:40 - Creative Time
    Build playlists, use instruments, hum, sing, or move with rhythm.

    6:40-7:10 - Circle Share
    Reflections and optional sharing of chosen music.

    7:10-7:30 - Closing Ritual
    Listen to a group-selected track in silence.

  • 5:30-5:50 - Grounding
    Visualization: “What has grown or changed in your grief?”

    5:50-6:10 - Guest Instructor Intro
    Muralist shares vision of grief-to-beauty transformation.
    Prompt: “What grief are you transforming into meaning or beauty?”

    6:10-6:40 - Creative Time
    Everyone paints on a shared canvas (can be portable or paper-based).

    6:40-7:10 - Circle Share
    Reflections on personal and collective change.

    7:10-7:30 - Closing Ritual
    Naming circle: what we are releasing and taking with us.

Interested in joining us for Creative Mourning? Please fill out the form below.

Meet the team

  • Alica Forneret

    PAUSE Executive Director & Founder

  • Stevie Luna Ibarra

    PAUSE Programs Manager

  • Shante DeLoach

    PAUSE Events Manager

  • Sarah Williams

    FCCW

  • Kamala Puligandla

    FCCW